The Heart of PASOR: Our Members
Behind every successful community organization are the individuals and families whose lives have been touched and transformed. At PASOR, we celebrate the stories of our members—their journeys to Rochester, their experiences building lives here, and how community connections have made a difference.
These stories remind us why PASOR exists and inspire us to continue serving Pakistani Americans in Rochester.
The Ahmeds: Finding Family Away from Home
When Tariq and Samira Ahmed arrived in Rochester with their two young children, they knew no one. Tariq had accepted a position at a local university, and the family was excited but anxious about starting fresh in a new city.
"Those first months were incredibly lonely," Samira recalls. "We missed our families terribly, and the kids were struggling to adjust to their new school."
A colleague of Tariq's mentioned PASOR, and the family attended their first event—a summer picnic. "The moment we walked in, people welcomed us like long-lost relatives," Tariq says. "Within an hour, the kids were playing with other Pakistani children, and Samira was exchanging numbers with other moms."
That picnic was a turning point. The Ahmeds became regular participants in PASOR events, and the connections they made evolved into deep friendships. "PASOR gave us a family in Rochester," Samira says. "When I was hospitalized unexpectedly, community members organized meals for my family for two weeks. That's what family does."
Dr. Farah Siddiqui: Giving Back Through Service
Dr. Farah Siddiqui has been practicing medicine in Rochester for over twenty years. As one of the physicians who participate in PASOR's health initiatives, she has helped countless community members navigate health challenges.
"I grew up watching my parents serve our community in Pakistan," Dr. Siddiqui explains. "When I came to America, I wanted to continue that tradition. PASOR gave me a platform."
Her involvement began with speaking at a cancer awareness seminar. The response motivated her to do more. She now regularly volunteers at community health events, provides informal consultations to community members, and mentors young Pakistani Americans interested in medicine.
"Understanding why health education matters drives my commitment," she says. "When I can prevent one person from developing diabetes or catch one cancer early, it's worth every hour I volunteer."
The Khan Family: Building Business Through Community
Imran Khan came to Rochester as a graduate student twenty-five years ago. Today, he owns a successful IT consulting firm employing over fifty people. He credits PASOR with much of his business success.
"When I started my company, PASOR's networking events were invaluable," Imran explains. "I met my first three clients at PASOR gatherings. The trust built through community connection gave me credibility."
As his business grew, Imran made a point of giving back. He mentors young entrepreneurs, sponsors PASOR fundraisers, and employs several community members. His company offers internships to Pakistani American students, providing career-launching experience.
"Success isn't meaningful unless it's shared," Imran says. "PASOR taught me that business and community service can reinforce each other. When the community thrives, businesses thrive, and vice versa."
Aisha Mahmood: Youth Leadership Development
Aisha Mahmood attended her first PASOR event at age twelve, dragged along by her parents. "I was a typical American kid," she laughs. "I didn't see why I needed to hang out with other Pakistani families."
That changed when PASOR started its youth leadership program. Through workshops, community service projects, and mentorship from professionals, Aisha discovered a passion for community organizing. She went on to lead PASOR's youth committee as a high school senior.
Now in her twenties and working in nonprofit management, Aisha looks back on PASOR as transformative. "PASOR helped me understand that my Pakistani heritage wasn't something to hide or be embarrassed about. It was something to celebrate and a source of connection."
She continues to volunteer with PASOR, now on the other side—mentoring young people like she once was. Learn how to get involved in youth programs.
The Hussain Family: Support Through Crisis
Nothing tests community like crisis. The Hussain family experienced this when their father, Mohammad, was diagnosed with advanced cancer.
"We were devastated," says daughter Sana. "But what happened next showed us what PASOR truly is."
Community members organized a meal train that lasted throughout Mohammad's treatment. Professional connections helped navigate complex medical decisions. Fundraising through PASOR helped cover gaps in insurance. Most importantly, visits from community friends provided emotional support the family desperately needed.
Mohammad passed away after an eighteen-month battle, surrounded by family and PASOR friends. "The community's support didn't end with Dad's death," Sana says. "They were there for the funeral, the mourning period, and beyond. We weren't alone."
The family has since become active PASOR volunteers, giving back what they received. They've also learned about how support helps cancer patients in Pakistan through Shaukat Khanum.
Young Professionals Finding Their Footing
A group of young Pakistani American professionals has formed a vibrant subcommittee within PASOR. These twentysomethings and thirtysomethings face unique challenges—navigating careers, dating, and identity questions that their immigrant parents don't always understand.
"PASOR's young professionals group has been a lifeline," says Zain, a software engineer. "We support each other's careers, discuss relationships, and figure out together what it means to be Pakistani American today."
The group organizes networking happy hours, professional development workshops, and social events. They're also increasingly engaged in PASOR leadership, bringing fresh energy and new ideas to the organization.
Senior Wisdom and Connection
For elders in our community, PASOR provides vital social connection. Monthly gatherings for seniors give retirees opportunities to socialize, share memories, and feel valued.
Uncle Karim, as he's known in the community, has been attending PASOR events since the organization's founding. "I've watched this community grow," he says proudly. "The young people today have so many opportunities we didn't have. But they need us too—our stories, our wisdom, our connection to where we came from."
His perspective enriches PASOR, connecting generations and ensuring that community history isn't forgotten.
Your Story Awaits
These stories represent just a fraction of PASOR's impact. Every member has a story—of connection, support, growth, or contribution.
What could your story be? Perhaps you'll find lifelong friends, career opportunities, or a platform for service. Perhaps you'll help a newcomer adjust to Rochester or mentor a young person finding their path.
Join PASOR today and become part of our story. Learn about the role of PASOR in community service and how you can contribute.
Your chapter in the PASOR story is waiting to be written.
